Boys, can't live with them, can't live without them. Well ain't that true. When I came to Western I had just gotten out of a 3 year relationship that ended real bad. The relationship started really well, we weren't just boyfriend and girlfriend, we were also best friends. We were together but he was allowed to do his thing and I was allowed to do mine and we trusted eachother. We knew we wouldn't do anything to out the relationship in jeapordy, or so I thought. He took my trust for him for granted and ended up cheating on me. I was emotionally distraught. But he was my first love, or so what I thought "love" was. So we talked, and cried, and after endless phone calls, apologies, and flowers, I took him back. Well once a cheater, always a cheater. I got cheated on not once, but twice now. And this time was even worse. We were already having troubles with me still being in high school and him being 2 hours away at Appalachain State. Everynight was a fight and I would call my best friend Allie everynight crying about what problem I was having and she would cope with me and make everything okay. I confided in her and she always knew what to say to make me feel better. Well little did I know that Allie, my so called best friend, had beed text sexing with my boyfriend for the past month and had planned on going to see him that weekend. I had no idea, she just told me she was going to ASU for the weekend. I didn't think anything of it. Well come Monday at school I find out that she had hooked up with him, not only hooked up with him but I also found out that they had been "talking" for over a month. At this point I wasn't even upset, I was PISSED. And let me tell you I told the both of them everything I thought about them. And let me tell you I am not a fighter, but there were fights. With both him and her. I went psycho. And you know, I never really did cry about it. I was better than that, I didn't need people like that in my life. Still to this day my ex-boyfriend calls me just about everynight, and I used to answer. But i'm over it now. I don't need his apologies. I don't need him. I thought I would never trust another guy again. And I didn't for a long time. But I can't let that hold me back. I'm in college now, and I need to have my fun. I'm not going to let my past experiences hold me back from letting a good guy pass me by now. I learned to let my guard down, and i've realized that not every guy is an asshole.
Kristina Culmer (Holly's Class MW 12:20)
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I so totally know how you feel, i was with a guy for 2 1/2 years and he cheated on me, i always took him back until i had all i could take of the lies and the cheating, like u said once a cheater always a cheater, and theres no chaging them. un fortinetly u cant live with guys you cant live without them and you cant kill them...well technically you could but the government doesnt like that very much...i can only say that those kinds of jerk guys will only make us stronger as girls in the end!!!
the comment was from kelli in hollys class...i forgot to put my name oops
HELL YEAH GIRL! Get it get it! It's uberrr rough getting over a guy, but once you do, and you realize how much better off you are and how much better you can do! Ahhh, it's like a breath of fresh air. Like the weight of world has been lifted off of your shoulders. Been there, done that. I'm proud of you girl.
Amber Shipp
I know that it is hard getting over a guy, I have been there and done. I don't really agree with the once a cheater, always a cheater. My mom used to tell me that about my dad all the time and then this summer my mom decided to tell me that she cheated on my dad when I was two and he was in Florida working on hurricane relief. This was hard for me because she had always talked so much shit about how my dad cheated on her but she never mentioned the fact that she cheated on my dad. Yeah my dad's case might be a little worse since it was with my mom's best friend but still its all cheating.
I don't think that my mom cheats on the man she is married to now, so I don't think that once a cheater always a cheater. I don't think that my dad cheats on the woman that he is married to now, which is the woman my dad cheated on my mom with.
And about letting your gaurd down, don't let it down completely. One thing you do have to do is when a guy starts playing his game. You have to start playing your game, don't be easy, don't give in to this stuff he tells you.
Have the mentalilty of a man!!! Act like you don't care every once in awhile.... it will help you win!
This is college girls, time to quit being hurt, time for us to be the heartbreakers in this relationship shit!!
Taylor (Holly)
I definitly know what it i like to have a best friend stab you in the back like that. It sucks, but it's good that you were able to be strong. I have never been cheated on (that I know of), but I can imagine that it is completley heart breaking.
Kristy Pannill, Holly's M-W class
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