So lately it seems like the only problems I have had, well besides the billion parking tickets I am getting, have to deal with guys. I was seeing this guy and things were going really well and we would be together all the time after class. So I asked him if we were just seeing each other or if he was seeing other people also. He told me that he really really liked me but he wasnt wanting a relationship. But he also said he didnt want me to see anyone else besides him. So i was just like....umm...alright. Like what do you do with that? Well after i had asked him that he just completely stopped calling me and texting me and hanging out. But I see him everyday in dodson and he always comes up and gives me a big hug and sits down. So i was so confused. I asked him if he still wanted to hang out and he said he thought i didnt like him anymore but that he would text me later. he never ended up texting me so i am completely giving up on him. Im not going to wait around for him because if he truly liked me like he said he wouldnt be treating me like that, right?
Well, my roommate and i are always down at the kappa alpha house haning out with the guys because we are pretty close with some of them. I have recently began to talk and hang out with one of them pretty often. he and i have really opened up to each other and it is nice to have a guy that you can tell anything and know that he is listening. But my roommate and my friend tell me not to get involved and they would be disappointed in me if i tried to take this guy and i's relationship farther. neither of them will tell me why but i just think it is weird because they dont really know him. He is a nice guy and keeps me laughing so i love his friendship but my girlfriends think i want more which i dont think i do at this point but they wont believe me.
i just dont get why guys are so confusing sometimes!!
but anyways i hope you all are going to have an amazing fall break and i will see everyone next week!!
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I completely understand where you are coming from.. guys are always confusing me and giving me mixed signals and when you try to confront them with questions to figure out their real feelings they just turn away and kind of ignore that you ever asked any questions. And the part about your friends not wanting you to take things any further is common with all my freinds too and i think it probably because they dont want me to get hurt. Or at least i hope thats why they do that.
I know what you mean about the parking tickets! I have had a boot and three parking tickets already, luckily I got one taken off haha
I'm sorry about your friends telling you not to go further with the guy you like but I think you should trust your own judgement. If you like him and you can tell he likes you, you should do what feels right. Good luck though! I heard fraternity guys are cute! lol
-Lauren
I think that you should really talk to your friends and try to find out why they feel that way? Maybe they know something about that guy that you don't and they are tryin to protect you. Maybe he is a good guy and wont break your heart give him a chance! It is better to of loved and lost than to never love at all!!
-Courtney (Holly's Class)
I know how confusing guys are. I had a situation almost the same as yours, so I know where you're coming from. As of your friends thinking you want more than you do from this other guy, just talk to them and try to get them to see your point. Hope everything goes good.
Megan (Holly's Class)
With guys, I think its good to always be direct. While we (as women) kind of have that sixth sense and instinctively know that something isn't quite right, guys just don't seem to get it. You get brownie points for being straight with that one guy, but he looses brownie points for completely ignoring you afterward. Sadly, that happens.
When it comes to your girlfriends though, in the end, what only matters is that you do what feels right for you. Just make sure that you let your friends know that you have heard them and not completely blown them off. Explaining the situation also helps :)
I forgot to leave my name under my comment but the first comment on this blog is mine that I posted on October 8, 2008 10:05pm
-Kelly D (Holly's class)
Stephanie (Holly's class)
I haven't gotten a parking ticket but does a speeding ticket count? haha.
I know what you're talking about with the whole boy thing. I mean it's not that hard, do you like me or not ! Don't sit there and f'n tease me, that's our job !
G's, and they say we're crazy and moody.
If you like that one guy that you are hanging out with, girl go for it. Yes. You should respect your friends opinions but to a certain extent you know?
Parking Tickets! I HATE THEM. There are never parking spots so after 30 min of looking for a parking spot I give up and just park wherever. But on the guy situation, i've learnd that one, you don't want to put alot of effort into somehting when the guy isn't putting the same effort back. Its just physically and emotionally tiring. You just have to learn to cut things off and if he really wants to talk to you and keep things going he will come to you. If not, then it really isn't worth it. And about the other boy, you can't help how you feel and your friends should understand that. And if you don't want a relationship with him then don't. Keep it as a friendship and see what happens. Most good relationships start with a good friendship.
Kristina Culmer (Holly's Class)
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